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Just Start: Taking the First Step Towards Your Goals

We all have dreams and aspirations, big or small, that we hope to achieve someday. Whether it's starting a new business, getting in shape, learning a new skill, or pursuing a long-held passion, taking that first step is often the most challenging part of the journey. But as the saying goes, "The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." In this blog post, we will explore the importance of just starting and share tips to help you take that crucial first step towards your goals.

1. The Power of Starting

The act of taking the first step towards your goals is more powerful than you might realize. It signifies your commitment and determination to turn your dreams into reality. Here are a few reasons why just starting is essential:


Momentum: Starting creates momentum that propels you forward. Each step you take builds upon the last, making it easier to keep going.

Overcoming Procrastination: Procrastination is the enemy of progress. By taking that first step, you break the cycle of procrastination and set the tone for a productive journey.

Gaining Experience: Every step you take provides valuable experience and learning opportunities, helping you develop the skills and knowledge necessary to achieve your goals.

Motivation and Confidence: Achieving even small milestones along the way can boost your motivation and confidence, making it easier to stay committed to your goals.

Fear and self-doubt are common barriers that often prevent people from taking the first step. To overcome these obstacles, consider the following strategies:

Break It Down: Divide your goal into smaller, more manageable steps. This makes the task less daunting and more achievable. I have a FREE Mini course that will help you walk through this. If you want these steps, reach out and I’ll send it to you. 

Visualize Success: Spend time visualizing yourself achieving your goal. This positive visualization can boost your confidence and diminish doubt. Building a goal/dream board is so helpful with this. Seeing and feeling your vision starts to propel you into the steps that you need to take to achieve them. 

Remember Past Successes: Reflect on past accomplishments. Remind yourself that you've overcome challenges before and can do it again. Keep celebrating all the wins. Big or small they all need to be celebrated in order for your brain to gain the evidence that you can achieve them.

One effective way to ensure you take that crucial first step is to set SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, Timely) goals. A well-defined goal gives you a clear direction and helps you focus on what needs to be done.


Specific: Clearly define what you want to achieve. The more precise, the better. Be very specific in what you want to achieve. Make sure you know why you want this. Make sure it is not a surface level of why. Dig deep.

Measurable: Establish criteria to measure your progress and success.You have to have some way to measure your progress. This can be in many different ways. How you are feeling, through pictures, on a scale basis of 1-10, so many options. Just have a way to see your progress. 

Achievable: Ensure your goal is realistic and attainable given your current resources and constraints. Don’t set the bar at the top right off the bat. Make the big picture goal that you want to hit then break it down into smaller ones that you can hit in a timely fashion. Want to lose 30 lbs(big picture) start with 5 lbs by end of January(achievable)

Realistic: Your goal should align with your values and long-term objectives. You need to be realistic at what it takes to get to the big picture goal. You can lose 30 lbs in a month. That is not realistic at all, but you can lose 4-8 lbs in a month. This is why its so important to break that big picture goal down into bite size pieces.

Timely: Set a deadline to create a sense of urgency and keep you on track. ~ If you are not making progress we tend to get into our heads and think that we can’t do it so we quit. Making your 30 lbs is a long road. This is a goal to hit in 3-4 months. But breaking that down to 4-8 lbs in 4 weeks gives you hope. It gives you that drive that you can do it. You get to see results quicker.

It's easy to get caught up in planning and preparing endlessly for your goals. However, nothing beats the value of taking action today. Here's how you can do it:

Start Small: Don't feel pressured to make huge strides immediately. Begin with a small, manageable step that you can take right now. We tend to do the all or nothing mindset. This will kill the drive because we get discouraged with not being able to fit it into our lives. One small shift each day trunks into a lifestyle change over time.  

Create a Routine: Incorporate your goal into your daily or weekly routine. Consistency is key to progress. You need to plan for your new goals. They don't just fall into your day. You need to put them in. 

Accountability: Share your goal with a friend or family member who can hold you accountable for your actions. Find a partner that has the same goals and values that you are working towards. Have that person that will give you tough love and you can be that person for them. Accountability partners are a massive key to success in building the habits that you are needing. 

Celebrate Progress: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how minor they may seem. When we do this we are giving our brains the evidence that they need to keep pushing forward. Positive reinforcement rather than condiment of where you are not. 

Just start. These two simple words can be your mantra as you embark on your journey towards your goals. Remember that the first step is often the most challenging, but it's also the most rewarding. By overcoming fear, setting SMART goals, and taking action today, you'll be well on your way to turning your dreams into reality. So, take that first step, and let your journey begin. Your future self will thank you for it.

When you look back on yourself in a year you will be thanking yourself for taking that first step. Seeing how far you have come will be the ultimate reward.

If you are looking for that person to help you propel yourself into the version that you have been dreaming about, reach out. Let's see if this community is the right place for you. We are all here just walking each other home. 

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